Monday, October 30, 2023

Atheism and Morality, Part II: How Does an Atheist Become a Moral Person?

Christians sometimes ask atheists, “If you don’t believe in God, how can you be a moral person?”  

The question is really two questions.  First, how do you know what is moral without being told by a religious authority?  Second, how do you control your impulses without the threat of divine punishment?  I addressed the first question in last post, and the second question in this post.

How Does an Atheist Become a Moral Person?

The answer is simple.  You choose to be a moral person.  Personal morality is based on personal values, which can be derived through lived experience, observation of other humans, and self-reflection.  I believe the most important human values developed through this process are empathy, truth, justice (i.e., equity, fairness) and responsibility.  Other core values include service, progress, respect for nature & animals, self-care and liberty.  Not everyone who observes and reflects on the human condition gets there; there are a lot of people whose world-views are based on self-interest and bullying others.  But the morality of the four core values of empathy, truth, justice and responsibility should be indisputable.  Atheists and religious people alike should agree that these are the foundation of morality, based on the precepts of caring for other people and doing the least harm.  

 “The question I get asked by religious people all the time is, without God, what's to stop me from raping all I want?  And my answer is: I do rape all I want. And the amount I want is zero.  And I do murder all I want, and the amount I want is zero.  The fact that these people think that if they didn't have this person watching over them that they would go on killing, raping rampages is the most self-damning thing I can imagine.  I don't want to do that.

Penn Jillette, of the illusionist team Penn and Teller

 The entire question of morality, of course, concerns people who are interested in being moral.  There exists a distressing percentage of people who have no interest in being moral and act entirely for their own self-interest.  According to popular media, about 1% of men are psychopaths, and up to 4 % of men are sociopaths; a somewhat smaller percentage applies to women.  This blog post is not about them.  This blog post is about the people who aspire to live moral lives, and their reasons for doing so.

A good friend just posted a question on social media regarding religion and morality.   She asked her religious friends (excluding the non-religious) this question: “Does either fear of hell or promise of heaven/good rebirth affect your choices/behavior?  If so, which is the stronger motivator?”  She had about a dozen responses.  Interestingly, in all of the current responses there was no consideration for consequences in the afterlife due to their decisions and behavior.  (I think that I read one response that half-heartedly admitted to fearing punishment after death, but it seems that response was deleted.  So it may be that people don’t want to admit that fear in public.)  The question was posed by someone who is generally on the liberal side of the political spectrum, and I presume that her respondents are also liberal.  A conservative group may produce different results.  But with those caveats, this group makes their moral decisions in the same way as atheists – according to principles of right and wrong, and consideration of doing good or harm to other people.  The only religious motivation mentioned in the responses was that the joy of a religious life gave motivation to do good works.  Religious joy may be a motivation for religious people, but that does not imply that atheists are immoral.  Like many religious people, atheists find joy in doing good deeds for the sake of doing good. 


Dudley Do-Right and Snidely Whiplash

Does Religion Make People Moral?
If people require the discipline of a God to be moral, are they really moral?  If fear of God is the motivating factor to behave with kindness and justice toward other people, is that behavior moral, or simply fearful?  Coerced behavior isn’t rooted in morality.   For people who are only moral because of the threat of eternal damnation, the only thing that matters is avoiding punishment.  When religious doctrine becomes the authority for what is moral, morality itself is distorted.  Religious doctrine has no clear foundation of ethical morality.

Let’s briefly consider the historical record for Christianity and morality.  
If religion (specifically Christianity) actually produced moral behavior, would the world have seen the cruelty associated with the following Christian campaigns through history? 

  • Systematic persecution of pagans and Jews in the late Roman Empire and Middle Ages.
  • The coerced conversion of Northern and Eastern Europe to Christianity around 1000 CE, enforced by unspeakable torture and murder.
  • The Crusades, from 1100 CE to 1300 CE.
  • Burning of heretics at the stake in the Middle Ages and Renaissance.
  • Burning of witches at the stake in the Renaissance.
  • The repression of science in the Renaissance, through arrest and threatened torture.
  • The Italian and Spanish Inquisitions of the Renaissance, marked by repression, torture and murder.
  • The conquest, enslavement and exploitation of Native Americans and other indigenous groups in the course of conversion to Christianity.
  • European wars of religion from 1400 CE to 1700 CE.      

The Christian Bible had reached its current form by about 400 CE.  By 1000 CE, Christianity was a mature religion, and Christian principles of loving your neighbor, of forgiveness and non-violence should have been well-established.  Brutality in the name of Christianity continued for the next 900 years.  Mark Twain, a relatively recent author, decried the brutality of Christianity during his time, in writings such as “Letters from the Earth”, “The War Prayer”, “To the Person Sitting in Darkness”, “The Chronicle of Young Satan”, and “Grief and Mourning for the Night”.

Across centuries, religious doctrine sometimes corrects errors of the past, with actions ranging from Martin Luther’s ninety-five theses to the belated admission by the Catholic Church, after 359 years, that its conviction of Galileo was wrong.  Missionaries no longer use torture and murder to convert adherents of other religions.  But after a millennium and a half of cruel subjugation of people with other beliefs, can we really say that religion can claim any high ground with respect to morality?  

Historian Thomas Cahill argues that every human culture practiced some form of human sacrifice prior
to encountering Christianity.  That is an improvement, but relative to other crimes of Christianity it is a fairly low bar.  It seems to me that Christianity did not become less brutal according to its own principles, but rather in accordance with the general improvement of human behavior over the very long term.  Steven Pinker documents this gradual improvement well in his books “Enlightenment Now” and “The Better Angels of Our Nature”.  The arc of moral history does bend toward justice in the long run, but not necessarily because of religion.

The Origin of Moral Authority
Morality derived from religious authority is necessarily suspect, because religious authority is often concerned with behavioral issues other than care or harm to others.  Christianity, Islam and Hinduism have many moral laws about sexual issues, including gender identity, sexual orientation, interracial or intercaste relationships, abortion, contraception and sexual liberty.  There are also many non-sexual restrictions specific to women, including the freedom of women to work, study,  to refuse compulsory dress, or even the freedom to appear in public alone.  

There are religious decrees asserting moral control over other aspects of life.  Western societies have slowly loosened these restrictions, but in my lifetime, local government typically restricted business hours and activity to ensure observance of the sabbath.  There are religious decrees concerning caste status, cutting hair or not cutting hair, eating or not eating certain foods, wearing hats or not wearing hats, all of which infringe on the fundamental moral value of liberty.  Some religious moral dictums are arbitrary traditions, and some reflect ancient health concerns, but many aspects of religious morality exist to perpetuate religious control.  Some religious moral standards exist in order to perpetuate patriarchy, slavery, caste systems, or social hierarchy.  There is no real moral authority for these religious judgments.

Considering all of this, moral authority from religion is null and void.  People who take moral guidance from their religious authorities are mistaken.  True morality comes from consideration of the well-being, rights, freedom, and feelings of other people.  Religious issues outside of those considerations are morally irrelevant. 

Atheists in religious societies (as we all are) are necessarily independent-thinkers.  Perhaps atheists understand the origins of morality and its foundation in human values better than religious people.

Moral Dilemmas and Conflicts
Morality necessarily involves dilemmas and conflicts.  Sometimes, moral considerations are in conflict for different people in a particular situation.  Indeed, moral conflicts are nearly ubiquitous in civil discourse.  An example might be the fishing rights of indigenous people, where their need for sustenance competes with the need to protect of wild fishing stocks.  Other examples might include conscientious objections to military service, restricting the liberty to own guns to improve public safety, requiring vaccinations and masking in certain jobs to prevent the spread of disease, or setting immigration quotas for asylum and resettlement.

As an atheist, humanist and western liberal, there are some common notions of morality that I reject.  I reject nationalism and patriotism.  I reject restrictive norms of sexual identity and behavior, except for actions involving minors, actions with those incapable of knowledgeable consent, relationships with a power differential, and relationships which cause harm to others in a committed relationship.  Otherwise, the moral value of personal liberty should prevail.  

I recognize truth, self-care, and liberty as core moral values of a different kind.  These are values which do not directly benefit or harm other people or nature, but exist as moral values for their own sake.  These values are sometimes in conflict with other values, such as when a doctor must comfort a dying patient, or times when self-care is in conflict with serving others.  

There is one value, one of the top four values in my opinion, for which mystical religions are clearly immoral.  That value is truth.  As I hope to show in the final essays for this blog, mystical religion fails every test of rationally determined truth.  

Truth is part of morality, and religion isn’t true.  Therefore, I conclude that religion is immoral.
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Wednesday, October 25, 2023

Atheism and Morality, part 1, Where Does Morality Come From?

Christians sometimes ask atheists, “If you don’t believe in God, how can you be a moral person?”  

The question is really two questions.  First, how do you know what is moral without being told by a religious authority?  Second, how do you control your impulses without the threat of divine punishment?  I will consider the first question in this post, and the second question in the next.

The entire question is vague, because “a moral person” is poorly defined and is up for considerable debate.  If the chosen definition of a moral person involves religious observance, then no, an atheist is not going to fit that definition of morality.  But any thoughtful person can independently determine what is moral and what is not.  I have found that atheists, accustomed to thinking for themselves, are typically more considerate of right and wrong than religious people.  
 
Angel Aziraphale & Demon Crowley, from Good Omens, by N. Gaiman and T. Pratchett

I settled in to do a small bit of research for this post, and quickly realized that I could fall into a very deep rabbit-hole without adding any clarity about the subject.  So I will take a shallow look at the meaning of morality and then address the question of how atheists can be moral people.  

There’s a growing body of academic work on the topic of morality.  The research is focused on the development of morality with maturity, and cross cultural patterns of accepted morality.  There are a few core values across cultures that are widely regarded as moral, though the list of values is by no means settled.  This post will look at the development of moral thinking, moral foundation theory, the Ten Commandments, my own thoughts about morality, and finally, the relationship of morality to atheism.

Development of Moral Thinking
Lawrence Kohlberg (1958) built on the work of Jean Piaget (1932) in looking at the development of moral thinking in children.  Kohlberg defined a hierarchy of six levels of moral development, beginning with the thinking of young children, and continuing to the thinking in (some) adults.  In summary, the six levels represent a growth in care and respect for others.  These include the values of physical well-being, property rights, and liberty.  With increasing maturity, there is an overall decrease in the acceptance of authoritarian guidance on morality, and an increase in independent thought and action relative to morality.  
Kohlberg's Stages of Moral Development

Moral Foundations Theory

Moral Foundations Theory is a 21st century attempt to categorize moral precepts across cultures.  It was proposed to counter the “developmental rationalist” approach by Kohlberg.  The Moral Foundations authors identify six core values across cultures: Care, Fairness, Loyalty, Authority, Sanctity and Liberty; the converse of these values represent immorality.  Earlier work had identified the areas of autonomy, community and divinity as representing cross-cultural clusters of moral concern.  

The Moral Foundation authors remain open to additions or deletions of these core values.  Not surprisingly, there are disputes regarding moral variation across cultures and additional proposed core values.  Other proposed values include efficiency, ownership (property rights), honesty and equity (separate from fairness(?)).  The discourse with respect to Moral Foundations has taken on a decidedly political turn, with conservative and liberal views being argued and amended over what qualifies as fairness in economic distribution.  Certain views of morality appear to be reverse-engineered from self-interest, which is a long way from the authors’ original concept of universal morality.  

The Ten Commandments

Conservative Christians often cite the Ten Commandments as the foundation of morality.  Like the Greek myth that Prometheus gave fire to humanity, there is a Christian myth that God gave morality to humanity.  Conservatives frequently campaign to post the commandments in courts and schools, ignoring the glaring illegality of doing so.  The First Amendment prohibits establishment of a state-sponsored religion, and posting the Ten Commandments in official government facilities would clearly violate that ban.
Ten Commandments, von Carolsfeld, 1850
With that aside, let’s consider what values are expressed by the Ten Commandments.  I will  note that the subdivision and numbering of the commandments is vague and not universally agree upon.  I will use the traditional Christian numbers for this discussion.  

The first four commandments concern the relationship between God and humans.  Certain behaviors are required or prohibited as a form of respect toward God.   The remaining six concern relationships between people.  Here is the list, and the values represented by the commandments.

        You shall have no other gods before me.         Relationship to God.
        You shall not worship any graven image.        Relationship to God.
        Do not take the name of God in vain.              Relationship to God.
        Remember the Sabbath.                                   Relationship to God.
        Honor your father and mother.                         Respect and fairness.
        You shall not kill.                                             Care, avoidance of harm, respect, civil order.
        You shall not commit adultery.                        Sexual behavior, purity, respect, clear inheritance.
        You shall not steal.                                           Property rights, respect, civil order.
        You shall not bear false witness.                      Truth, fairness, civil order.
        You shall not covet your neighbor’s things.     Property rights, civil order.


So we see that the Ten Commandments include generally acknowledged elements of morality, involving respect and care for others.  But the Commandments begin, in a prioritized order, with moral sentiments that are explicitly rejected by atheists as nonsensical.  The remaining commandments, while dealing with aspects of fairness and respect, also show that maintaining civil order is also a priority of the commandments.

Moses Breaking the Tablets of the Law, Gustave Dore, 1866

My Take on Morality
Since there is no clear definition of morality, it’s fair that I weigh in with what morality means to me.  I generally agree with the ideas in the Development of Moral Thinking theory.  I agree with some ideas in the Foundations of Moral Thinking theory, but with the caveat that the moral consensus has changed radically over time, and will probably continue to change.  Some part of the moral consensus will soon be judged to be incorrect.  Historically, there has been a consensus about a patriarchal morality across many cultures, but modern western cultures would find many of those ideas unjust.  Consensus and tradition are insufficient; we have to think about these things from the perspective of human values.

The clearest moral principles reflect respect and care for other people.  Many religions contain these principles.  It has been said that the Golden Rule is intrinsic to all religions.  Like the Golden Rule, moral principles can be independently derived by anyone of sufficient intelligence and maturity.  Above all, universal moral principles should reflect care and respect for other people.  “Other people” includes those of different races, ethnicity, beliefs, origin, sexual identity or orientation, age, near and far, and people in the future.  Aspects of that respect should include safety, health and well-being, property rights and liberty, including freedom of sexual orientation and identity. Morality should also include self-care, and care for animals and nature for their own sake.

A few years ago, I initiated a project to identify the core values for the Alaska Democratic party, and to write those values into the state platform.  I interviewed about 40 Democrats, and asked about their  values.   It was clear that there was a strong consensus about key values, but often expressed in different words.  I identified related values and grouped those into six core values.  After some valuable editing, my six core values were named as Empathy, Truth, Equity, Service, Progress, and Responsibility.    A seventh value, Ethics, was added in the editing process.   I also see Ethics as the intersection of Truth and Responsibility.  

Included in each value are other facets which relate to the named core value.  For example, Empathy includes compassion, kindness and generosity.  Truth includes integrity, honesty and accountability.  Equity is a broad value, including fairness, justice, democracy, intentional inclusiveness, equal opportunity, human dignity, diversity, and respect.  Responsibility means taking action for good and ensuring that we create a better world for others and nature, now and in the future.  In the words of Thomas Jefferson, these values are self-evident, without needing the imprimatur of religious authority.  Like the Golden Rule, these values can be derived independently by anyone.  To expand this list to a list of universal morality, I would add respect for nature and animals, self-care, and liberty.  

My list of moral core values is expanded somewhat from the values of the Alaska Democratic Party.  Moral core values include Empathy, Truth, Justice (renamed from Equity), Service, Progress, Responsibility, Respect for Nature and Animals, Self-Care, and Liberty.  To me, those values are founded in care for others, and form the core of morality.  

Other Aspects of Morality

As seen in literature, theater, art, and music, humans are intensely interested in all aspects of love and mating.  For many people across many cultures, morality is directly connected to notions of sexual behavior and gender norms.  If you Google images of "morality", you find iconography of right and wrong; but if you Google for "immorality", you will find an overwhelming majority of references to sexuality.  Note that many of those moral norms reflect patriarchal repression of women and rejection of human gender diversity.  Over the past two centuries, the notion of what is moral for women has changed significantly in western cultures, and notions of what is moral in gender identity has changed radically in the past two decades.  Those changes are reverberating around the globe, as seen in global television dramas.  Still, there is a wide divergence in the perceived morality of women’s dress codes between Taliban Afghanistan and St. Tropez.  There’s a wide gap between the perceived morality of gay marriage between Waco, Texas and San Francisco, or trans-gender rights between Franklin, Tennessee and Key West, Florida.

There is a wide range of perceived morality of dress among different cultures.

Sexual behavior should be judged in the same way as other aspects of morality, in terms of the respect or harm to others caused by different behaviors.  Sexual actions involving minors, or others incapable of knowledgeable consent are clearly immoral, because of the harm caused and the exploitation of a power imbalance.  Sexual relations or pressure in situations with a power imbalance are also clearly immoral.  Relationships which cause harm to those in committed relationships are also immoral.  Sexual relations which result in children create moral obligations.  Children deserve a loving home, ideally with two parents, and sex without fulfilling that responsibility when a child is born would be immoral.  Sexual relationships are complicated, but as for other moral questions, the morality of a situation can be judged according to standards of care and respect.

What about other issues deemed immoral, such as LGBTQ+ rights?  No one is harmed by LGBTQ+ rights.  On the other hand, religious proscriptions on sexuality cause considerable harm to the non-heterosexual community.  

Community standards on dress can be appropriate to a social setting, or can be repressive.  A reasoned judgment can be made about whether it is moral to prohibit wearing a hoodie in the US Senate, or allow not wearing a hijab on the street.  The balance between community standards and personal freedom is on-going in society, and should be addressed from the perspective of who or what is harmed, and at what cost of personal liberty.  

Throughout history, men have largely been responsible for determining codes of morality for women.  This is well-illustrated by the photo of G.W. Bush, surrounded by his old, male advisors, signing into law the United States’ prohibition on so-called partial birth abortions.  Without going into the morality of a procedure which might be required to save a woman’s life in an impossible delivery, I would simply note that no women were included in the celebratory signing ceremony.  It seems to me that deciding moral standards on women’s reproductive rights and issues should necessarily involve women.

G.W. Bush, signing a restriction on abortion procedures, 2003.

Are credit-card interest rates of 18% moral?  I would say no.  We used to have laws against excessive interest rates.
Is is okay to lie on a credit application?  No.  
Is it okay to lie to comfort a dying patient?  Yes.

Morality is simply a question of fundamental human values, applied to questions of behavior and societal norms.  In all of these questions of morality, religion has no role.
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References
Kohlberg's Stages of Moral Development
https://www.simplypsychology.org/kohlberg.html


Moral Foundations Theory
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moral_foundations_theory

https://www.adamsmith.org/blog/the-nature-of-morality

https://www.yourmorals.org/

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Go read the book and see the mini-series.  The story is wonderful.

Friday, October 6, 2023

Acceptance of Atheism in America

                                                       Imagine there's no heaven
                                                       It's easy if you try
                                                       No hell below us
                                                       Above us, only sky

                                                       Imagine there's no countries
                                                       It isn't hard to do
                                                       Nothing to kill or die for
                                                       And no religion, too

                                                                Imagine, by John Lennon, 1971

John Lennon’s “Imagine” is a unique, remarkable song.  Contrary to Steve Martin’s assertion, “Atheists Don’t Got Any Songs”, in fact, atheists have this one extraordinary song.  I’m surprised at the success and popularity of Imagine.  It was ranked among the most-performed songs of the 20th century, ranked #3 on Rolling Stone’s 2004 list of the greatest songs of all time, has been performed or covered by over 200 major artists and was featured in ceremonies of three Olympics.

The popularity of “Imagine” is surprising because it is an atheist anthem in a society which generally shuns and despises atheists.  Polling and social research both show that a large segment of the population deeply mistrusts atheists.  However, like various other minorities and “out groups”, such as Blacks, LGBTQ+, Latino, south and east Asian and other immigrants, atheists are gradually gaining more acceptance in America.


Political Polling
A series of Gallop polls dating back to 1958 tested the acceptance of various out-groups as potential presidential candidates.  The polls asked participants whether they would vote for a well-qualified candidate from their own party, if that candidate were a member of an out-group.  In 2019, an atheist was the most objectionable minority as a presidential candidate, relative to Black, Catholic, Hispanic, woman, Jewish, evangelical Christian, gay, lesbian, young, old, or Muslim hypothetical candidates.  Only a socialist would poll worse than an atheist as a potential candidate.

Nevertheless, there is progress in acceptance of atheism.  In 1958, Gallop found that only 18 percent of American voters would consider an atheist as a potential president.  That number held steady in the mid-40 percent range from the 1980s to 2007, but has risen in recent years to 60 percent.  That said, acceptance of atheists is lagging the acceptance of other out-groups by two-to-six decades.


Decline of Traditional Religion
Polling shows decreasing adherence to traditional religion, across all ages and political affiliation.  Specific numbers are hard to tabulate, due to the personal sensitivity of the topic, and aversion to self-identification as an atheist.  Given the European history of atheist barbecues and torture, that reluctance may be well-founded.  Polling numbers for self-identification of atheists also suffer from nuances of language, and the failure to discriminate between atheists and agnostics.

The decline in traditional religion is mostly a 21st century phenomenon.  As recently as 1996, 96 percent of Americans said they believed in God or a universal spirit, about  the same percentage as in 1947.  Since 2000, increasing numbers of older and conservative citizens identify as spiritual but not religious.  And among younger and liberal citizens, increasing numbers identify as neither spiritual or religious.

An overwhelming majority of citizens still identifies as either religious or spiritual.  In the 2023 poll, 47% identified as religious, 33% identified as spiritual, 2% identified as both.  Only 18% identified as neither religious or spiritual.  This is a strong increase from around 10% at the beginning of the millennium, but still a small minority.

There’s a significant cohort which denies the existence of God but still avoids self-identification as an atheist.  In a 2015 poll, only 3% of those surveyed identified as atheists, but 9% denied the existence of God or a universal spirit.  This may simply reflect a failure to provide “agnostic” as a polling option, or may reflect reluctance to openly admit to disbelief, an aversion to the label of atheist, or some nuance of belief or language.

Social scientists Will Gervais and Maxine Najle conducted a series of clever experiments designed to determine the percentage of individuals who are reluctant to admit they are atheist, even in an anonymous opinion survey.  Their results suggest that 26% of Americans are atheists, but that more than half of them refuse to say so.  

Atheism and Morality
In 2023, a Pew Research Poll showed that 65% of Americans said that it is not necessary to believe in God to be a moral person.  The remaining 34% said that a person must believe in God to be moral.  Pew noted that these percentages varied by the strength of religious and political affiliation, and age.  Responses across all other countries surveyed, averaged near the American results, but with a wide range, generally depending upon relative wealth and the degree of religious conservatism.  In earlier polls, Pew noted that majorities in many countries considered that belief in God was necessary for morality.  Those majorities were strongest in poorer countries.

 

Like the political polling, Pew’s results over time show a growing acceptance of atheism in America.  In general, there has been a two-decade trend of increasing acceptance of atheism.  Nevertheless, there is still a strong core of people who believe that atheists are intrinsically immoral people, representing about one-third of the population.

Social Science
Social scientists have researched acceptance of atheists in society, in this country and others.  The research uses proven but indirect methods for identifying conscious and unconscious bias.  Researchers deliberately chose progressively more provocative associations in an effort to elicit clear results.  

Studies of intuitive perception performed by Will Gervais, University of Kentucky, showed that a significant percentage of people (up to 60%) associated atheists with various kinds of immoral behavior.  In every test, subjects were far more likely to have negative views of atheists than any other religious, social or ethnic group.  Curiously, a larger percentage of atheists themselves associated atheists with immoral behavior than members of established religions.

A higher percentage of Gervais’ subjects (60%) considered that an atheist was likely to be an untrustworthy, opportunistic thief, than any other religious or ethnic group.  Interestingly, atheists were regarded as more likely to cheat and steal than rapists (50%).  The third highest association was for feminists (30%), higher than any religious affiliation.  Gervais subjects also considered that an atheist was more likely to engage in consensual incest (50%, 2.5x higher than other religious groups), sexual perversion (60%, 3x higher than ethnic groups).

Gervais said, “I wanted to come up with one unambiguously immoral description…[I was] basically trying to come up with something so bad that people wouldn’t think an atheist would do it.”   Gervais’ last survey tested associations with a pathologically sadistic serial killer.  Fifty percent of Gervais’ subjects could potentially associate that description with an atheist.  Interesting, of the religious groups tested, the second most likely association was Christian, ahead of Buddhist, Hindu, Jewish or Muslim.  

Social science shows that there is still deeply ingrained bias against atheists in the American populace.  Atheists lag behind acceptance of ethnic groups, immigrants, LGBTQ+, and the entire spectrum of religious groups.  

Coming Out as an Atheist
I recently watched the delightful Pixar short film, “Out”, about a gay man coming out to his parents.  It made me wonder, for adults of any age, which would be the most difficult to say to conservative parents: “I’m gay.”, “I’m a Democrat”, or “I’m an atheist”?  Looking at the social science experiments, I suspect the most difficult of those would be “I’m an atheist”.   I am openly atheistic on Twitter, where virtually none of my family or older friends can see my views.  I conceal my atheism on Facebook, where religious family and friends see my posts.  

It seems to me that religious people see atheists as a threat to their beliefs, as well as intrinsically immoral.  I can imagine a conversation with my friends from my childhood church.  “Well, WHY are you an atheist?”  I would then point out that religion contains inescapable logical contradictions and that there is no factual basis for religion.  At that point, they would feel that I was attacking their beliefs.  There’s no way to explain self-identification as an atheist without saying that religion makes no damn sense.

Atheism is one of the least accepted forms of self-identification in America today.  Acceptance is growing, but for now, it seems best to stay in the closet, if I would like to retain my relationships with family and old friends.

Imagine
The closing lines of John Lennon’s “Imagine” are hopeful.  It’s an acknowledgement that there are others in the world who don’t believe in religion.  It is an invitation to let go of things that don’t make sense, adherence to abusive institutions and beliefs that cause conflict and destruction.   I hope someday you’ll join us and the world will be as one.

                                            “You may say I'm a dreamer
                                            But I'm not the only one
                                            I hope someday you'll join us
                                            And the world will be as one”

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It will be removed upon request.

References

Political Polling

https://news.gallup.com/poll/285563/socialism-atheism-political-liabilities.aspx
https://news.gallup.com/poll/254120/less-half-vote-socialist-president.aspx
https://news.gallup.com/poll/285563/socialism-atheism-political-liabilities.aspx
https://www.npr.org/sections/13.7/2015/08/10/431205042/should-we-distrust-atheists

Other Polling
https://news.gallup.com/poll/511133/identify-religious-spiritual.aspx
https://www.vox.com/science-and-health/2017/4/13/15258496/american-atheists-how-many
https://www.washingtonpost.com/archive/local/1997/05/31/poll-finds-america-as-churched-as-ever/f5e38ee3-2560-4680-b926-e2829c0c23f1/

Atheism and Morality
https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/04/20/many-people-in-u-s-other-advanced-economies-say-its-not-necessary-to-believe-in-god-to-be-moral/
https://www.pewresearch.org/global/2020/07/20/the-global-god-divide/
https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2017/10/16/a-growing-share-of-americans-say-its-not-necessary-to-believe-in-god-to-be-moral/
https://www.pewresearch.org/global/2014/03/13/worldwide-many-see-belief-in-god-as-essential-to-morality/
https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2005/01/24/politics-and-values-in-a-51-48-nation/
https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2003/07/10/god-and-foreign-policy-the-religious-divide-between-the-us-and-europe/
https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2002/03/20/part-1-religion-in-america/

Intuitive Perception
Popular Perceptions of Atheists, Will Gervais, University of Kentucky
Breaking New Ground in the Science and Religion Dialogue Workshop, University of Texas, 8/3/2015
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nrjw6bBOqR0&t=1195s

Other Resources
https://www.cfequality.org/issues/data
https://www.baylor.edu/baylorreligionsurvey/doc.php/292546.pdf
https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2023/01/03/faith-on-the-hill-2023/